Why is it important to be aware of other peoples feelings? give an example

describe an unhealthy way to express a feeling and explain how it could negatively affect you and someone else. be specific

now describe a healthier way to express the feeling and explain how it could positively affect you and someone else

Here is your first part ...

You need to be aware of other peoples feelings because when you hurt someone's feelings you give them a low self esteem which makes that person unwanting to talk, loss of appetite, and the person might cut him or her self (EMO) and a cause of suicidal thoughts or actions.

Ex: Have you heard what happen to jack every since you made front of him he started during himself I think you need to apologize because its effecting his family and him!

Here's your second part:

Well, when him or a her tell someone that's he or she has feelings for him the person doesn't feel the same and that person let's down that girl or boy the hard it effect them by embarrassment, and sadness then you become EMO and that person who let you down hard will be very to because of what he did to you and he or she becomes depressed too.

Ex: I'm so sorry that I acted the way I did when you told me how you feel and it affected you really bad because you turned into an EMO.

Here is your third part:

Ex: Well, when that person tells you how you feel and you can be like I like you as a friend I think your really cool and I'm pretty sure you can find someone better than me!

The girl or boy you let down easy might be embarrassed a little bit but she doesn't get a low esteem, so he or she doesn't become EMO, and your still friends and might become best friends so it effects both of you in a positive self esteem.

Its important to be aware of people's feelings because emotions are very powerful, that's why they made the expression words are stronger than fists.

One example of the unhealthy way to express feelings would be: say for ex your father got a job but requires the family to move to another country, u have been living there your whole life, made friends, maybe u are dating, or etc, and now u have no choice but to go with the family, the unhealthy thing to do would be to NOT speak up of your feelings to your parents, u don't know the result, it could be good or bad, words affect people in different ways so your parents may not move, and its unhealthy to bury your emotions like you bury trash in a trash bag, because the deeper it goes, the more the smell gets stronger, so same with emotions, the more u stuff it the more u are honestly hurting yourself. And u can affect someone by honestly taking out your anger or sadness to other people it can hurt them emotionally or physically.

Second example: say for example you are dating and you are in love, if u have feelings for the person you are dating it would be good to express your feelings by talking to the person and telling them how u feel, because if u don't, maybe that person wont feel the way u feel about him or her and will maybe have other feelings for someone else so it would be healthy to express it and it would be positive because its like carrying a TON of emotions on your chest and arms, but now you lift it off and its gone.