If a small meteor went toward the moons surface, and one the same size went towards earths surface, which would actually reach the surface and why?

The meteor that would actually reach surface at first would be the meteor coming to Earth's surface because scientifically Earth has a greater gravity force than Moon as it is a bigger celestial body between these two, so Earth's gravity would increase the speed at which the meteor comes, attracting it faster like a magnet compared to as Moon's would.