Why do people care about being popular

For many reasons

1 - To get free gifts all the time

2 - To be invited to many parties

3 - To have a lot of money

4 - To have people that like you

The host to humanity." Rather than focusing on their own social needs, they focus on the needs of others with the idea that they can somehow better that person's life. They're genuinely interested in other people, actively learn more about them, and look for connections.