Everything a speaker says is filtered through a listener's:

Everything a speaker says is filtered through a listener's "Frame of reference".

Frame of reference is an intricate arrangement of suppositions and states of mind which we use to channel observations to make meaning. The frame can incorporate convictions, compositions, inclinations, qualities, culture and different manners by which we predisposition our comprehension and judgment. Like we are wearing pink glasses and normally trust that the world has a pink shade, and subsequently that others will see it similarly.